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	Comments on: &#8220;Living while Registered&#8221; &#8211; Traumas and Triggers	</title>
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		By: CherokeeJack		</title>
		<link>https://floridaactioncommittee.org/living-while-registered-traumas-and-triggers/comment-page-1/#comment-48201</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[CherokeeJack]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 23:10:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://floridaactioncommittee.org/living-while-registered-traumas-and-triggers/comment-page-1/#comment-48199&quot;&gt;Sometimes It Goes Away Over Time&lt;/a&gt;.

To: Sometimes

Well with the &quot;New edition&quot; of the registry seemingly coming out every week, they will have to create a separate library just to store all the volumes. We are required to memorize all 44 Million words by heart and recite them on the spot or be sent to the gallows.

Although sarcasm, that is how I feel things have gone from zero to 50 from when I was first put on the registry in 1997. If they keep adding rules and restrictions, we will all have to be the first people to volunteer for that Mars Mission.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://floridaactioncommittee.org/living-while-registered-traumas-and-triggers/comment-page-1/#comment-48199">Sometimes It Goes Away Over Time</a>.</p>
<p>To: Sometimes</p>
<p>Well with the &#8220;New edition&#8221; of the registry seemingly coming out every week, they will have to create a separate library just to store all the volumes. We are required to memorize all 44 Million words by heart and recite them on the spot or be sent to the gallows.</p>
<p>Although sarcasm, that is how I feel things have gone from zero to 50 from when I was first put on the registry in 1997. If they keep adding rules and restrictions, we will all have to be the first people to volunteer for that Mars Mission.</p>
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		By: CherokeeJack		</title>
		<link>https://floridaactioncommittee.org/living-while-registered-traumas-and-triggers/comment-page-1/#comment-48200</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[CherokeeJack]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 23:04:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://floridaactioncommittee.org/living-while-registered-traumas-and-triggers/comment-page-1/#comment-48197&quot;&gt;Vindicated&lt;/a&gt;.

Vindicated

I will keep you in my prayers so you can have peace and comfort.
In the meantime I give you this verse from the good book.

John 14:27

Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://floridaactioncommittee.org/living-while-registered-traumas-and-triggers/comment-page-1/#comment-48197">Vindicated</a>.</p>
<p>Vindicated</p>
<p>I will keep you in my prayers so you can have peace and comfort.<br />
In the meantime I give you this verse from the good book.</p>
<p>John 14:27</p>
<p>Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.</p>
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		By: Sometimes It Goes Away Over Time		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sometimes It Goes Away Over Time]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 19:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Got pulled over for speeding. Officer ran my info, issued me a warning, and added, “since you’re on probation, remember to notify your PO within 72 hours or it’ll be a violation, Ok?”  Then I was on my way.

A guy in my group got pulled over for busted taillight. Officer urged him to get it fixed, then they shook hands and went their separate ways.

The more these situations unfold this way, the more my discomfort diminishes over time.

Address checks I must have had over a dozen by now.  No one’s been dramatic or disrespectful, and often they are over in a matter of seconds.

The more non-dramatic address checks I get, the less I jump when the doorbell rings.

Once in awhile I’ve gotten an urgent-sounding call from my registration office over some apparent glitch. Each time, it has been worked out without incident.  As have my numerous visits there.

While I try not to let my guard down, each time these contacts happen without incident, the stress is less and less.

A lot of what helps with this is just being an FAC member. It makes me more confident in my knowledge of the law, so I don’t become one of those “I didn’t know I was supposed to register that” type of arrestees.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Got pulled over for speeding. Officer ran my info, issued me a warning, and added, “since you’re on probation, remember to notify your PO within 72 hours or it’ll be a violation, Ok?”  Then I was on my way.</p>
<p>A guy in my group got pulled over for busted taillight. Officer urged him to get it fixed, then they shook hands and went their separate ways.</p>
<p>The more these situations unfold this way, the more my discomfort diminishes over time.</p>
<p>Address checks I must have had over a dozen by now.  No one’s been dramatic or disrespectful, and often they are over in a matter of seconds.</p>
<p>The more non-dramatic address checks I get, the less I jump when the doorbell rings.</p>
<p>Once in awhile I’ve gotten an urgent-sounding call from my registration office over some apparent glitch. Each time, it has been worked out without incident.  As have my numerous visits there.</p>
<p>While I try not to let my guard down, each time these contacts happen without incident, the stress is less and less.</p>
<p>A lot of what helps with this is just being an FAC member. It makes me more confident in my knowledge of the law, so I don’t become one of those “I didn’t know I was supposed to register that” type of arrestees.</p>
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		By: CherokeeJack		</title>
		<link>https://floridaactioncommittee.org/living-while-registered-traumas-and-triggers/comment-page-1/#comment-48198</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[CherokeeJack]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 17:53:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Do like I do, pull into a nearby business. 90% of the time they will drive right past you. I also will switch lanes at least once and see what they do. Often they will speed on past you. If they change lanes behind you, pull into a well lit and populated area like a walmart or Gas station so there are witnesses. 
Been a long time since I have been pulled over. I use to work in law enforcement, but now that I am on the registry, I get as nervous as anyone else. Just in all walks of life, there are good and bad cops. I have been pulled over by really cool cops who give a warning, even after running my license, then some really jerk ones where I was stopped in a Publix parking lot for Shopping while being registered.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do like I do, pull into a nearby business. 90% of the time they will drive right past you. I also will switch lanes at least once and see what they do. Often they will speed on past you. If they change lanes behind you, pull into a well lit and populated area like a walmart or Gas station so there are witnesses.<br />
Been a long time since I have been pulled over. I use to work in law enforcement, but now that I am on the registry, I get as nervous as anyone else. Just in all walks of life, there are good and bad cops. I have been pulled over by really cool cops who give a warning, even after running my license, then some really jerk ones where I was stopped in a Publix parking lot for Shopping while being registered.</p>
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		By: Vindicated		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Vindicated]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2022 17:51:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I would love to be in on one of the group calls, but that&#039;s the same time I have my court ordered group therapy. Feeling marginalized is rough. I definitely have PTSD, from abusive upbringing, social isolation due to various circumstances (including the fact that sticking out as a nerdy kid in the 80&#039;s was not at all like the nostalgia based movies and sitcoms make it out to be), and then becoming an RC with no prior criminal history and being stuck doing time surrounded by people who very vocally wanted me dead. It&#039;s struck me with the fear of connecting with others due to fear of being &quot;outed,&quot; let alone dating. The walls I already had up before becoming an RC basically became Fort Knox afterwards. Any time I hear a siren or helicopter or even see a vehicle with official labels and lights, I freeze, fearing the worst. Despite not having a history of making or even getting into trouble, the fear of an LEO (or even a neighbor) deciding that I &quot;got off too easy&quot; and deciding to enforce their own moral (or lack thereof) code has me wanting to hide in my room, forgetting what freedom looks like altogether.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would love to be in on one of the group calls, but that&#8217;s the same time I have my court ordered group therapy. Feeling marginalized is rough. I definitely have PTSD, from abusive upbringing, social isolation due to various circumstances (including the fact that sticking out as a nerdy kid in the 80&#8217;s was not at all like the nostalgia based movies and sitcoms make it out to be), and then becoming an RC with no prior criminal history and being stuck doing time surrounded by people who very vocally wanted me dead. It&#8217;s struck me with the fear of connecting with others due to fear of being &#8220;outed,&#8221; let alone dating. The walls I already had up before becoming an RC basically became Fort Knox afterwards. Any time I hear a siren or helicopter or even see a vehicle with official labels and lights, I freeze, fearing the worst. Despite not having a history of making or even getting into trouble, the fear of an LEO (or even a neighbor) deciding that I &#8220;got off too easy&#8221; and deciding to enforce their own moral (or lack thereof) code has me wanting to hide in my room, forgetting what freedom looks like altogether.</p>
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