FAC Member Submission

From a member:

I was arrested when I was 18. It was a sting operation. Non violent, no contact, and consensual.

I was sentenced as a Youthful Offender, withheld adjudication, and 2 years of probation (off in one). The judges’ exact words were “my hands are tied” when he handed me the sex offender label. I was 18.

I am now 25 and planning for my future. I don’t have to tell you how restricted I am, I see it all over your website.

I don’t qualify for Romeo & Juliet because it only covers crimes where there was a victim, not a made-up victim like my case.

I don’t want to waste my life here in Florida. Eventually the laws will change but I’m not waiting around for that day to come.

My question for your committee and its members is: Where can I move to (state or country) that will provide me relief as a Youthful Offender? I’m tired of being constantly paranoid, but this also puts my family at risk.

I appreciate your help!

There is a state-by-state survey that is posted, courtesy of the Alliance for Constitutional Sex Offense Laws that you can find HERE:

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Florida, as you will see, is one of the most backwards, draconian states.


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34 thoughts on “FAC Member Submission

  • September 21, 2018

    Hi – I live in Oregon and I hear my state is pretty good. Unfortunately my son was caught in a very similar manner as you up in WA state 🙁
    Feel free to write me if you’d like.
    Kathleen

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  • September 21, 2018

    I moved to Wisconsin where there is nothing on my license with regards to my charge in Florida. There are places that are willing to give you a chance here.I found a job making over 60k per year. The jobs are plentiful here. If I can help you I will. Email me@[email protected] I know of a company I can get you in with that I’ll start you at over$13 an hour and in 6 months you’ll probably be making in the neighborhood of $15 per hour

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  • September 21, 2018

    Massachusetts does it right.

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  • September 21, 2018

    Georgia, Oregon, and Rhode Island I believe have 10 year escape clauses but you’d still be listed here.

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    • September 21, 2018

      See the table in that link – there are many more. It also depends on the tier.
      So many people reach out to let us know they are not in FL but still on the FL registry. We tried to organize these people to co-fund a suit to challenge that, but so few people stepped up that we are less than 1/5 of the way there.
      I can’t use FAC’s general legal funds for this, because most of our membership is IN Florida and would not benefit from this action. It’s really up to those impacted to make it happen. We can lead the horses to water but cant make them drink.

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      • September 22, 2018

        I continue to make donations to the Out Of State Challenge on a semi-regular basis and have not given up on that challenge at all.

        Florida can be a nice place to raise a family, but even Floridians would appreciate options!

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      • September 22, 2018

        I had already reached out to New Hampshire, Penn, tenn and Arkansas
        I was told they going to discuss it with there board members on next month agenda. If i can get a little help finding these places .I be happy to send them emails. I don’t like taking on the phone because I’m hearing impairment plus the “He said/She said” then people have sudden memory loss when they say they make a commitment . How about a go fund ?

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        • September 23, 2018

          Go fund me rarely works and they take a piece of the revenue.

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  • September 21, 2018

    It does not matter where you move to…Fla. will keep you on their registry for life thus keeping you on the Federal registry for life.
    You may be removed from registration obligations as I was (by the state that I went home to) which does make your life easier, but…

    20 years later, I still run into employment problems, travel problems, I was kicked out of the YMCA (policy, my name came up on the Fed registry). Anyone that googles your name will trigger the registry listing and here you go again as if you just did a new crime.

    I haven’t had any run ins with the law in over 20 years, I have made a good life for my self here in NC (I am not required to register here.) But this issue does raise its ugly head over and over.

    All that I can recommend is to live your life the best you can and hope that people judge you as the person that “they know” and not as who they are told that you are.

    This is pretty much a death sentence.
    I wish I had know then what I know now…
    Michael

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    • September 21, 2018

      FAC is collecting for an out of state challenge – where people no longer in FL would petition to get off the Florida registry.
      Please search our site for “out of state” challenge

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      • September 21, 2018

        No one has donated to that in months and at 19% of the required funds Florida will probably change the law themselves in 20 or 30 years long before before the $25,000 is donated.

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        • September 21, 2018

          I sent in a donation, this month, granted small but I sent one in..

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          • September 21, 2018

            Appreciate that, Susan!

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        • September 21, 2018

          been waiting to here about the expost that we were told was going to be filled months ago. and this will probably not be posted again as my post 2 times in the post was not when asked about it

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          • September 21, 2018

            It will be filed when ready – some changes in precedent caused a change in direction.

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    • September 21, 2018

      Aside from having to re-register every few months, how is moving to another state beneficial if you are still registered federally? Do most website search offenders by state registries?

      Because, if you could move to a more lenient state and have your address not pop up, that would be worth it.

      Yea, employment and background checks would still be a bear, but the privacy aspect is very appealing.

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      • September 22, 2018

        Try searching out-of-staters on The Florida registry to answer that question. I recall in those cases that Florida publishes peoples’ city, state, and zip, but relegates their specific addresses to the police registry only.

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  • September 21, 2018

    look into the New England States especially Mass., and Vermont, Conn.

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    • September 21, 2018

      Either way no matter where you go youll still be on the list here no?

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      • September 21, 2018

        That is correct. Not only will he continue to be listed on the Florida state registry but also the federally run national sex offender database!

        https://www.nsopw.gov

        You can change states but you can not hide once Florida has you they have you for LIFE!

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        • September 21, 2018

          Are there any privacy advantages for moving to a different state that does not require you to register?

          Yeah, Florida and the Federal Registry still have you, but do SO maps flag your current residence in the non registered state?

          Even when you are googling names, I doubt another state’s registry would show up. The national registry has a million names. You couldn’t google anyones name without multiple SO’s popping up.

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          • September 21, 2018

            There are MANY advantages.
            – No SORRs
            – No Proximity Ordinances
            – You can parent your children
            – No IN PERSON re-registration
            – No vehicle registration
            – Freedom to use the internet without registering your identity
            – Not having your neighbors know your business
            – Not constantly worrying you are inadvertently violating some restriction you don’t know about.
            … the list can go on…

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            • September 21, 2018

              What about traveling within the US? Or back to Florida?

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          • September 22, 2018

            Anon Arizona is great here for me. Once a year report in. Nothing on my Driver license that say Sex offender. A $10/12 dollar fee at DMV for register but everyone paying that too.If you are not Classified a sexual predatory no 1000 foot law I hate to say this but the cops/sheriff at the Courthouse are petty cool about taking you and process you in No more then 30 minute wait.They don’t talk down to you and they do send your flyer out. The flyer and fees I care nothing about. it was the silly 1000 foot law. I got cool landlady 490.00 a month gotta buy own electricity She has waiting list for the apartments. Mine is 490. two other sizes are 580. a month and 675. for two bedroom. If interested asked me I give u her number The bad side of this State of Arizona Dry heat and temp is 115 in summer during the day and 90 at night I been here 7 years no problems and in 3 more years I going to asked the Court for removal. 10 year minimum in this state. I don’t put my faith in the system I put it in GOD.

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